I need to know to know if I can be on Facebook and*or Messenger and not be shown as being active to anyone because there are times that I need to get on my Facebook and*or Messenger to get some info from either app and as soon as I get on I start receiving messages and different things from people because they see I am now active and that is unwanted. If I can not show I'm active when on Facebook and*or Messenger I would like you to explain how I can do that. If I can't not show I'm active when on Facebook and*or Messenger I would like you to explain why I can't do that. Thank you.
I trust that Facebook will make this right and come up with a resolution that is fair.