Several women are being preyed on by a married man claiming to be a surgeon who needs female support, companionship, *** so he can get the confidence to file for a divorce. Below is a GMAIL exchange in which he admits his use of Match for these purposes. This is NOT what I pay a Membership fee for! KICK THIS FRAUDSTER OFF MATCH!**Rockdoc*** year old man*Freeport NY, USA*Seeking women ** - ** within ** miles of Freeport, NY*************************************"On Wed, May **, **** at **:** PM, Kenneth Becker ******@***.com* wrote:*Yes I agree and won't lead you in that way as you're right **On Wed, May **, ****, **:** AM Lori Robins ******@***.com* wrote:*Obviously, every woman deserves more than a man in your position can offer. That is not the point. **The point is that you are playing me in order to keep me engaged until you feel that you have more to offer. * "That lawyer is just what the doctor ordered." "I'll be out of the house by Memorial Day weekend." "I have an appointment with the lawyer tomorrow."**These are all statements designed to keep me engaged until you are more available, so that you feel confident that once you are ready, I'll be waiting. *More than likely, it will not work out that way. So, stop it.**On Wed, May **, **** at *:** AM, Kenneth Becker ******@***.com* wrote:*Thank you Lori as I understand your viewpoint completely and was not looking to mislead nice woman like yourself at all as I just needed to see that there are decent woman out there who find me attractive on order to feel confident enough to go through this next year of **** getting divorced and I do understand and have been honest with the few woman I've chatted with on Match as to my situation and if they wish to start a friendship fine and if not I wish each of you well as I know I'm not really all thst available for another month or two yet but I'm moving forward regardless the cost as I'm kind of fulfilling a promise to my Mom who passed earlier this year. So thank you for your kindness and i agree that for now you deserve more than I can provide. *Ken**On Tue, May **, ****, **:** PM Lori Robins ******@***.com* wrote:*Dear Ken,**I am responding via gmail out of concern for the security of correspondence on Match.com.**In all honesty, you have been misleading everyone on that dating site since the day that you signed up. You are not "recently separated" or "currently separated". You are a married man, stuck in a loveless marriage who is looking for sympathy to bolster your ego and repair your self-esteem. Maybe some meaningless flirting on a dating site is helping you by putting a smile on your face in the midst of your misery. You've been playing women on Match to see if any of us is willing to step into the drama, offer you sympathy, companionship and ***, and fortify you emotionally as you wage war on your marriage. As compelling and sweet as you are, I am not playing that game with you. I'm sorry that you are so miserable at this point in your life. If I could wave a magic wand and make it all better for you both, I definitely would. Sadly, I am not that powerful.**To clarify: I have not pushed you towards anything. Whatever has been going on between you and your wife has nothing to do with me. If you have been arguing and making each other miserable, your divorce will be all that much more difficult - if and when you elect to move forward. If you are really that unhappy, go to a hotel and find a good counselor to help you keep your balance. **I offered you the name of a mediator*lawyer that another surgeon on Match used while trying to play games with me a few months ago. Like you, he had a wife, a kid in college, a surgical practice, and a house to sell. After I declined his dinner invitation, he had his wife contact me on Match to see if I'd befriend her and help her through their divorce. I reported him to Match and called my attorney. **It's difficult enough to be single again at this age without also being used by married men as emotional crutches and ego builders. As I mentioned, I'd be happy to be proven wrong this time because I really like our connection - but I am also smart enough to understand what I think is really at play here. "
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