I am having a major issue with a transfer:*My husband insisted on setting up his own pa...

I am having a major issue with a transfer:*My husband insisted on setting up his own paypal account to receive a donation to help out our family. And he doesn’t have a bank account set up. Our bank account at the was -$**.** so I think he didn’t accept the money he just sent the money to me on our debit card. Then I accepted the money on my payapal account and the transfer is pending and now my bank account in pending -$***.**. Then this morning my husband accepted the money and we transferred he money to our account trough the debit card and our account is -$*.** we have been card $**.** in overdraft fees so my questions are did we accept this money twice ? and now are we not going to be able to use this money ? and do I need to cancel the transfer from my account ?